I don't have to guess how miserable you feel after a long lasting relationship or marriage breaks up, I have experienced it first hand. For whatever reason the great relationship you had started to slip away. Whether it was too much time apart because of job issues, or too many girls/guys nights out, or way too much time on Facebook. Things happen, resentment starts and continues to snowball into picking at each other, unavoidable fights, blame and things being said to each other that you can't take back, or forget.
So, first we can agree that although you feel totally alone in this, you are not. There are a lot of people, friends, family and coworkers that can sympathize and offer all kinds of advise on how to move on or get them back. Of course, depending on your situation, such as verbal abuse or physical abuse, your decision must be very carefully thought through. No one should put themselves in harms way for the sake of love. At least not without guidance and counseling.
So, let's assume there are other reasons for your breakup. A relationship that has a solid, basic foundation has something most relationships don't have. So, believe it or not, this is something that can be rebuilt on. You have met people who have broken up and later got back together again. It happens all the time. Even marriages or relationships that broke up over one or the other cheating. In most cases, even that can be overcome. No situation is absolutely hopeless.
Unfortunately, there is very little USEFUL information available on how to fix a broken relationship or getting the love of your life back. But, once you understand the underlying reasons and motives as to why people take their exes back you can, at the very least, make an educated decision for your situation. You see, getting an ex back, or putting a breakup back together again has a lot to do with timing and reading signals from the other person. There are tell tale clues that shows you still have a special place in their heart, regardless of what they say. You also need to learn when to apologize and when not to. Under the right circumstances an apology can work, and other times it can blow up in your face and blow any future chances of reconciliation. You will need to learn how diffuse arguments before they start and what decisions you should put off until you are actually back together.
Regardless of why your marriage or relationship has hit the wall, in most cases it can be saved. Now, I'm not saying you can put it back together in an hour, a week, or even a month. Depending on the circumstances of your break up, these things take time. Learning the "Magic of Making Up" can certainly give you the information you need to make the right moves at the right time and when to sit back and wait. Remember, timing is everything. It takes time to build a good relationship, so it will take time to rebuild one. But, if your relationship is worth saving, time will not be a problem.
"The Magic of Making Up" can help you stop your break up or divorce even if your situation seems hopeless! This book can show you exactly what to do and what to say to get your partner back in your arms again, even if you are the only one trying!
Remember, there was a reason you loved that person to begin with, so don't be a statistic now. You can put your Love and Long Lasting Relationship back together again and be happier than you have ever been!
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Best of Luck!
Pat Westermann
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